Ring a Bell?

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away - if he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for his behaviour.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then no you cant "be friends". A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend.

Dont settle.

Dont stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or a better job.

Do not make him into a God. He is a man - nothing more, nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man (whoops!). If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are not dogs (prove it!!)

You should not be the one doing all the bending......compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships....there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals....look for someone complementary- - not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr Right.

Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted (and dont I know it!!!)